When sexual life becomes monotonous or we do not have enough self-knowledge of our sexuality, the stimulation of the penis becomes the central action of sexual relations. However, there is a much broader and more diverse world of pleasure that you can discover thanks to Shiva Massage.
The erotic massage you receive in our erotic massage center helps you enter a deep state of relaxation while you experience unimaginable sensations of pleasure. This type of massage provides you with deep well-being and the opportunity to discover much more about your own body and how to stimulate it. Each person has more sensitive erogenous zones than others and their favorite techniques to excite them, our erotic masseuses can help you on this journey of self-discovery.
Beyond the penis, there are other areas that can be stimulated and can even lead you to have an orgasm, one of them is the perineum. The perineum is a very sensitive area with many nerve endings that is located between the testicles and the anus. Therefore, the massage in this area can be very erotic and sensual.
This massage is a good sexual stimulation technique that can be extended over time because the stimulation is not as direct as that of the penis. This allows the man to experience a different pleasure than he is used to and not associate ejaculation as the only purpose. It is a moment for yourself and to recreate yourself in the pleasure you are feeling.
Perineal massage can be of two types: superficial and deep. The superficial one may be the most suitable for those who want to try new experiences but little by little. It can also be used as a preparation and then leads to deep perineal massage.
In the first massage or superficial perineal massage, the perineum area is stimulated by caressing the skin between the anus and the scrotum, which is especially sensitive because it is not usually stimulated, it is a new point of pleasure. You should make rhythmic and smooth movements and increase the pressure little by little. For this part, it is important to have good communication with the person who is performing the massage in order to indicate the appropriate pressure and intensity for the person receiving the massage. In addition, you can start only with the touch of the fingertips or the palm of the hand and then other parts of the body such as the lips and tongue can intervene.
The next phase or type of massage is the deep perineum massage. This consists of stimulating the P point that is inside the rectum, in the first 5 cm. This area is not difficult to locate even if it is hidden, to find it it is necessary to know that it is a smooth and rough area and a little prominent. An interesting fact is that the more excited the man is, the more this area swells and therefore, it is easier to recognize through touch. To stimulate it, simply make the "come here" gesture with your fingers and pay attention to verbal and non-verbal communication, such as sighs or the change of expression of the person receiving the massage.
We know that it is a non-direct stimulation massage and that therefore it can be prolonged over time. But the perineal massage can also be our ally to reach the climax sooner. The perineum is such a sensitive and erogenous zone that massage can also serve as an aid to accelerate the arrival of orgasm and ejaculation while stimulating the penis. With the practice of this technique and others such as KSMO man can become multi-orgasmic.
It is essential to have a good water-based lubricant that will help the fingers slide and thus we can avoid annoying friction on that fine and delicate skin. In the event that you want to experiment in a different setting and the perineal massage is in the shower, the lubricant must be silicone-based so that it continues to perform its function successfully. In the case of receiving perineal massage from your partner, it can be very erotic and more pleasurable to try a hot or cold effect lubricant or even an edible one and that your partner not only uses his fingers but also his tongue and lips.
Hygiene is very important on both sides, both in the perineal and anal area of the person who is going to be stimulated and in the hands of the erotic masseuse or the person who is going to perform the massage. In addition, this will help both parties feel more comfortable during the course of the massage. To make it much more pleasant, the man has to feel safe, confident and relaxed in order to fully enjoy this experience of deep perineum massage and relaxation.
This practice will be more comfortable from the start with good posture. The most recommended is lying on your back with your legs open and bent so that the entire area of the genitals and obviously the perineum is much more accessible to the masseuse or the person who is performing the massage.
A man will be able to relax and experience pleasure when he is relaxed. If necessary, you can also start by giving an erotic massage to the entire genital area or even the entire body. The important thing is to get the man to be relaxed and trust the person who is going to give him the massage.
This massage can be perineal only or be part of and complement other massages such as the P-Point massage or the lingam tantric massage and complete an experience of deep relaxation and excitement.